Hello World! Welcome Friends! A romantic getaway is the perfect opportunity to put the spark back in your relationship by escaping the everyday routine. But it is supposed to be romantic, spontaneous and fun, and too much planning and overthinking can ruin the spirit of adventure, and make the whole experience rather stressful. Ideally, you want to avoid being overwhelmed with too many details of arrangements and just go.
I was curious how other couples manage to balance numerous organizational obstacles and get away from the city without the immense pressure of planning and organizing which can really spoil everything. The Big Bear Luxury Cabin team knew just what I needed and they were more than helpful in helping me get the necessary information on what to do when you want to have a romantic getaway with your significant other.
Do Some Planning
Going with the flow is amazing, but can also be risky because you might get unlucky with working hours, steep prices or unavailable seats. It’s good to think ahead and book accommodation a bit earlier, check local prices and interesting locations to visit. This way you will ensure you have stuff to do and places to go.
This does not diminish the value of a wild getaway, you are just ensuring you won’t spend the weekend in a hotel room fighting or bored. You should remember that the point is to have a good time with your partner, and little preparation ahead will do just that.
Create Your Own Adventure
There are no rules on what you should do on your trip. Remember that the point is not to impress anyone, but your partner and yourself. You don’t have to do anything super expensive to get likes on social media. The goal is for you to enjoy what you like to do.
Maybe it’s a 5-star hotel, or maybe you prefer a remote AirBNB in the city outskirts, a cabin in the woods, or 3-day hiking. You should do what you as a couple love to do together, and not be bothered by some fake standards on how romantic getaways should look like. Be unique, stay within your budget and do things you prefer.
Common Interests
The journey is about finding out what you both can enjoy. There’s no point in picking activities only 1 partner wants, or even worse, something the other person hates. This is an opportunity to change your mind about things you didn’t like before, but, more importantly, it is about embracing what you, as a couple, like to do.
New experiences can give that much needed fuel for your relationship, and doing something that is out of your comfort zone sounds intimidating, but that’s the whole point. Creating moments worth remembering is priceless.
Stay Positive and Have Fun
Life is unpredictable, and even if you plan everything to the last detail, there are always things that can go wrong. It’s important to not let anything destroy your mood, especially if it’s out of your control. Maybe your hotel room is not as attractive as you saw in the brochure, or the weather is bad, or the food is not as tasty as you’d hoped.
No matter how careful you are with planning, bad things can happen. That’s why it is important to focus on the fact that you two are away from work and monotonous life, and instead of bickering, you can laugh at things that suck and move on.
Romance is not something you can define or measure. Every couple has their flow and what drives their relationship. A romantic getaway is a reminder of how much fun you two can have, but also a discovery. If anything goes wrong, or not how you had imagined, just have a laugh about it and stay positive.
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