Hello World! Welcome Friends! A tough love approach is typically applied to most situations where one person is trying to support a loved one through an addiction. As painful as an addiction can be to watch, tough love isn’t always the right tactic.
Rarely is it the tone you should take. As a loved one struggles with addiction, understandably, you want to know what you can do to help them. This is without enabling them or seemingly permitting their addiction.
Here is how to help a loved one with addiction and what approaches you can take.
Educate Yourself on Addiction
Recognize that you’ll make mistakes in what you say and how you treat an addiction. This is natural. However, there is a lot of research to read, including free articles and books online.
Educate yourself about addiction. Learn what it is, how to recover, and the best support strategies.
Don’t Ignore the Problem
A loved one may want to deal with an addiction on their own. You may not know how to approach them about it and ignore them. As hard as it is, don’t ignore the problem.
Don’t deny what’s happening. Think about what you want to represent your loved one. Recognize that addiction is often progressive and worsens over time if left untreated.
Be Mindful that There Is an Underlying Cause
Everyone with an addiction has an addiction because of an underlying issue that is untreated. You may not know precisely what this issue is, and a addict may not want to discuss it with you. That’s okay.
The underlying issue, however, needs treatment. Mental health counseling or addiction treatment centres may be something to explore if there are resources like this available.
Recognize the Signs of Enabling
When you enable a loved one, your behavior supports their drug use. This can occur when you lend them money when they say they’re short on rent, but you know they’ll use it for drugs.
It could be ignoring unusual behaviors or actions or not reporting dangerous or harmful acts, such as stealing from you. Do not enable. Help a addict by holding them accountable.
Have an In-Depth Conversation
Have a kind conversation with your loved one. In this regard, you should talk to them about their situation and the negative effects their behavior has on themselves and others. See if they’re willing to acknowledge the negative impact.
If they don’t want to talk about it, tread lightly and leave the topic alone for a little bit. However, return to it in another conversation or day. See if they can see the consequences.
Let Them Know Where You Stand
Have rules for what you will accept around and advise your loved ones if they rely on you. Let them know you wish them to accept treatment; if you don’t, let them know the consequences.
If this is met with anger, resentment, or betrayal, accept it, understand why, and move the conversation forward.
Provide Them with Safety and Security
Let your loved ones know that if they seek treatment or wish to stay with you, they can—assuming they remain clean. Let your loved ones know you’re not abandoning them.
Be as kind as you can so they feel you’ll always be somewhere safe to come to. Don’t judge them or their disease. Accept them.
Let Them Face the Consequences
A addict may expect you will always cover them or save them when they get into a difficult situation. When it comes to addiction, you have to let them face the consequences of their actions. Don’t allow them to live in your home if they are using.
Don’t cover them when their employer calls asking where they are. When their addiction causes problems, you have to let the person confront them alone. Anything more, and they will never stop doing what they’re doing.
Offer to Support Them Through Treatment
You may need to learn what steps to take, goals, or treatment guidelines. However, you can tell a loved one who wants to seek treatment that you’ll support them.
Be detailed and offer them what you can, such as financial support. Let them know what you can offer to help them through. This can mean a lot.
Take Care of Yourself
If you care for someone going through an addiction, don’t forget to take care of your mental health. Some caregivers can make themselves sick by constantly putting in all the time and effort to care for someone.
Ensure you’re sleeping and eating right and be gentle with yourself. Don’t give in to anger, shame, guilt, or depression. Treat yourself kindly.
©2024 The Dedicated House. All rights reserved. No part of this blog post may be used or reproduced without the written consent of the copyright owner.
Click the links below for any posts you have missed:
Top Emerging Technology Trends In Real Estate
Creative Ideas for Using Mosaic Tiles in Your Home Decor
How You Can Add More Value to Your Home in 2024
The Essential Guide to Gutters in Richmond, VA
How to Create the Illusion that You Own a Luxury Home
Renovation vs. Redesign: Which Has a Greater Impact on Property Value?
I’d love for you to join my email list! You’ll receive a notification straight to your inbox which will include links to my latest home project posts! Simply enter your address below.
Thanks for stopping by! Have a wonderful day/night depending on where you are in the world! Go with God and remember to be kind to one another!
Toodles,
[…] How to Help a Loved One with Addiction […]